I missed blogging all these days. My fingers were impatient to write. But I was not sad, just enjoying the first days of married life, adjusting to living with someone, caring for someone and thinking about the needs of someone else other than myself. I am an impatient girl. But marriage is teaching me patience and softness. I did not care for somebody else's opinion as long as what I felt and said was right. But now I am learning how to be careful with spoken words so that they don't hurt somebody. My ego has taken a backseat and my love the driver's. I guess there are always so many things to learn from others in a lifetime.
Guess I am out of touch with everything right now, so no blog entry for many days. From many days, a question is bothering me. I haven't found a satisfactory answer yet. So I'll write it down here. Maybe anybody who reads this may know the answer. "Just because we are journalists, writers, opinion creators and thinkers, do we have the right to judge others? Either personally or professionally?" I think we don't have the right to judge a person, even if we are right. But as writers, we would have to judge others whether we like it or not. And it's very difficult forcing people to think, but that's what we are doing or pretending to be doing right? Another question: "How come life is so simple if you just let it live by itself without bothering much and so complicated if you try to manipulate it or even understand it?" Blessed are the ignorant. We who can understand everything, try not to let anything go by without understanding and thus miss the b
... if only one could throw the Ego altogether out of the window and let the Love be the driver, conductor & cleaner forever ... :)
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