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Strangers again

Two days ago, I was trying to cross the busy road near bus stand in Mysore. A girl too was there carrying a heavy bag. Then she saw me and came near me so that we could cross together. The same thing always happens to me while crossing the road. There would be somebody else and we would look at each other, then cross together. For a brief moment, we would be stranger-allies against the onslaught of traffic. While travelling to Orissa recently on train, a middle-aged man who couldn't understand our language brought us water in bottle whenever our bottles emptied. He did not know us and yet helped us. Somebody helps us in bus by keeping our heavy bags on their laps, others by leaving the seat to an elderly person or a woman with a child. In all these incidents, there is no need for words, a glance, a gesture is enough. And sometimes, it was just mutual understanding without any kind of gesture. After alighting from the bus, train or crossing the road, we are strangers again.

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  1. suresh chengappaOctober 11, 2011 at 2:33 PM

    Good observation. Perfectly right.

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  2. suresh chengappaOctober 11, 2011 at 2:33 PM

    Good observation. Brilliant.

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  3. AnonymousOctober 12, 2011 at 12:44 PM

    even i experienced dis several times but never thought about dis great thinking...

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